Greetings to all you. May you have a good day. 

It is a common thing that we care so much about whether or not someone likes us, because that is common. Not only that, but it is a natural instinct to want others to accept us. We still feel compelled to care what others think of our looks, our personalities, and our success.

So, we try hard to gain as much affection from the people around us and question what aspects of ourselves we need to change in order for that to happen. The problem with this is that we forget to ask whether or not we even like these other people or whether or not we even like ourselves when we are with them. Because the perception of other, in what we think it is matter. 

This is why we need to learn to stop giving a damn about what other people think. Not giving a damn about what other people think means to give a damn what you think. It means acknowledging your own feelings and placing worth on them, instead of wondering so much about what others feel. It means recognizing your own self and accepting it for what it is. We all have a place in this world and if you feel as if others are judging you and making you feel less than what you deserve, then that is not your place and you need to leave.

Your life should not be about pleasing other people, that is now what it is. Do not let their opinions pull you down to their level. You know what it is you are doing and why, causing the opinions of others not to even matter. Once you realize this, it makes it much easier to not give a damn what they think.

With love, Syafika